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**Has unwanted sexual behavior impacted your marriage and intimacy?**

**--> Do you feel disconnected from your spouse?**
**--> Would you like to safeguard your marriage from sexual sin?**
**--> Are you tired of making excuses?**
**--> Are you tired of lying to yourself and others?**
**--> Do you want to identify why you keep circling the same issues?**

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I grew up a pastors kid (PK) in Juneau, Alaska, and after marrying my wife Heather, we became staff pastors along with my parents. – After more than a decade on staff we felt the call to leave the nest and move to Portland, OR to plant a church. We packed up our life and 3 small kiddos and headed South – and yes, everything is South when you live in Alaska – on a journey of faith.

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